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Anxiety Wrap Conquers Thunderstorm Fear

Saturday, December 12th, 2009

I finally had occasion to see for myself that this simple little stretch garment can help a dog who has to be peeled off the ceiling at the sound of thunder.

So many of you have written me and called into my shows about your dogs who are so terrified of thunderstorms that you now live in dread of stormy weather — your dogs have created storm phobia in you! When I researched and wrote THE DOG BIBLE I knew there were a lot of dogs who got shaky during storms and I had learned about the Anxiety Wrap as the most effective tool to manage the problem. In my own canine pack the only thunder phobic members was Yogi Bear, my 110 lb Rottweiler, who was otherwise the most happy-go-lucky guy but when there was thunder he trembled and panted drips of saliva everywhere. But with him, I didn’t need any special management tools. I could encourage him to go lie down underneath the hanging clothes in a walk-in closet that did not have any exterior walls, and that contained his fear enough that it never became panic.

But once I spent time on the radio I discovered how many people have dogs who come completely unglued in a storm — people whose dogs will jump through screen doors or plate glass windows if they are alone when a storm hits. Other people have dogs who will try to chew their way through a door from the terror of thunder. And for all these people, it is distressing and makes them feel powerless to help their dogs when they are with the dog in a storm to experience the fierce trembling, panting, whining and misery of a dog who has become unglued by the effects of a thunder storm. When they call or write me for advice I recommend the Bach flower remedy made by Spirit Essences called “Stress Stopper” but I know that it doesn’t work in all dogs and for a dog going bonkers, it may take the edge off at best. I would mention Anxiety Wrap to people — saying that my research showed that this tightly fitting but breathable “body glove” that compressed a dog’s torso like a glove had been proven to calm and settle those dogs to varying degrees. Mothers in every culture know how swaddling a baby tightly helps with a fussy little one, who quiets down because of the security and comfort being tightly wrapped.

I have always felt terrible for these people whose homes are under siege and their dog is in jeopardy whenever the storm season arrives.

And I have always felt grateful and a little proud that none of my dogs has ever made a big deal of thunder. I thought it might be because I was such a calm and reassuring leader. I had to think again. And go hunting in my doggy closet for the Anxiety Wrap I had received as a sample and had kept in case someone needed it in the future. Well that day was here — and the recipient was me, which was the last thing I’d expected!

One not-so-fine day one of my very own dogs, Scooby Doo, woke up and was suddenly thunderstorm phobic — as though someone had waved a nasty wand over his head. When the thunderstorm rolled in, Scooby came over to me trembling and panting (all the classic symptoms) and then he tried to squeeze underneath my desk. He’s over 100 lbs. so there is not room for him and my legs under there! I quickly put a dropper full of Stress Stopper from Spirit Essences in his mouth — and I slipped him into the Anxiety Wrap. [I saw later that the directions said to try it on your dog once before a thunderstorm so he doesn't make an association between the "Wrap" and the storm and deduce that the Anxiety Wrap was responsible for the storm -- but I had no time] The Anxiety Wrap had not been on his body 5 minutes when Scooby Doo was a changed man — and I was a true believer!

The Anxiety Wrap

The Anxiety Wrap

Synchronicity occurred because the two women who developed the Anxiety Wrap reached out to me and asked if they could become website sponsors.  And yes it is a two-woman company: two people who put an idea into action and have been perfecting it ever since. For example, they stayed on the lookout for a new and improved 4-way stretch fabric that is light, can breathe, and has just the right cling to squeeze a dog’s body just enough so he can pull himself back together.

Happy ending: Scooby Doo slides into his Anxiety Wrap at the least sign of noisy storm and is a much braver boy. And I invited the Anxiety Wrap ladies, Susan and Kimberly, to join my team so I can get the word out to other storm-phobic dogs. Susan is coming on DOG TALK® and CAT CHAT® too, to explain that her expertise as a dog trainer is available free for a lifetime to any dog who is lucky enough to get Anxiety Wrap to really chill him out in stressful time.

Tracie

The Dog Bible

The Dog Bible

Cat Eating Everything in Sight

Monday, July 20th, 2009

This was one of the worst cat behavior problems I had ever encountered, from Sharon in Canada:

My cat Tom is eating our clothes and shoes.

He came to us as a kitty, we had a 13 year old Jack Russell and they were good friends, well the Tom thought so, good ole Chip the Jack Russell tolerated getting his ears washed on a regular basis. He started almost immediately eating shoe laces and then elastic bands for the new paper in the morning went missing. Then he started getting into the laundry and eat anything that had some elastic to it, bra strap tank top straps and so on.

Now he just eats anything from the dish cloth in the kitchen sink to the tea towels, terry towels in the bathroom and face cloths he loves, he has also eaten huge holes in sweat shirts, tee shirts and last week he got into my closet and demolish over $400 of sweaters. He has chewed I don’t know how many pairs of shoes, he eats the whole straps and chews the backs and heals, well he will chew and eat just about anything.

We have had him at the vet and they put him on Prozac which just made him spacey and a little scary and he still chewed.

We got him a cat friend when Chip died and he didn’t care too much for her so our son took her to live with him.

He eats a can of wet food a day, also has some crunchies to chomp on. He like to also crunch on dog milk bones when he get into the cupboard and helps himself to the dog treats that I have for my sons dog when he comes to visit.

He doesn’t chew the curtains in the house or the furniture, or the cushions on the couch. He did once chew a throw that I had on the back of the couch though. And he did once chew through a pillow case on the bed but has never chewed the bed linen or duvet.

I just don’t know what to do with him. He is a very loving cat and he adores me, follows me everywhere. He is a large ginger tom — fixed — he has a very long tail. After he has chewed some thing he acts quite weird and almost has a bit of an evil look about him, but it doesn’t last long.

If you have any suggestions, I would be most grateful

So I turned to Dear Sally (Bahner) the Official Cat Behavior Consultant on CAT CHAT® and here were her suggestions:

First, are they locking up all the “chewables”? Might be hard to get into that habit, but it sounds as if they haven’t been doing that.

Of course his behavior sounds like OCD (and Spirit Essence has an OCD remedy, but Tom might be beyond that…), but I’m wondering if there isn’t some kind of nutritional deficiency. Having blood work done might reveal something.

What kind of canned food are they feeding — maybe upgrade to a higher quality, lower carbohydrate brand?

How about trying some raw chicken/cornish game hen necks to chew on, maybe some wings. (Remember that cooked bones splinter.) Or some chunks of raw meat? Might redirect Tom’s need to chew.

Re: giving him medication, the pharmaceutical that the AAFP (American Association of Feline Practitioners, the cats-only vets) recommends Clomicalm (Clomipramine) for OCD-type/ritualistic behaviors. It takes 5 to 7 days for the initial effect and 3 to 5 weeks for long-term effects. I think some vets prescribe a one size fits all recommendation for drug use.

Check this out, too.

Then, just to cover all bases with my experts, I turned to Jackson Galaxy, who is a cat behavior consultant and the owner of Spirit Essences, which I call “emotion potions” and are based on Bach flower remedies to deal with cat, dog and horse emotional issues. And Jackson wrote:

This sounds to me like a Pica variation — when cats will chew on or eat certain items. This one with Tom is pretty serious.

Quickie solutions?

1) Keep all elastics, etc out of reach. It calls for creativity, consistency and patience, but it’s better than surgically fishing a bra strap out from around the intestinal tract.

2) They have stumbled on one solution that has helped many a Pica cat — crunchies. Put SMALL bowls around, in places like in front of the closet, etc where the cat has gotten into the most trouble. It satisfies his chewing need. Also try something like the small sized Buster Cube, which will occupy the mind and satisfy the crunching need at the same time.

3) Other than that, we get into the land of a more personalized consultation, which of course I’d be happy to help with. I can make a Spirit Essence tailored just to him. Oh, and of course there is always the Spirit Essence called Obsession Remedy!

Jackson Galaxy | Cat Behavior Consultant
Phone | (310) 376-6616
Fax | (310) 318-0711
E-mail | jackson[at]jacksongalaxy[dot]com

Spirit Essences on the Way

Monday, July 20th, 2009

Thank you Tracie. We listened to your 1pm show on out drive to NC and really enjoyed it. I have adopted Gracie’s brother Sam who was brought back to the shelter. He is very standoffish and won’t let us touch him. I went to your web site and ordered 3 different Spirit Essences and will let you know how they work. Thanks for all the info you provide you cat lover fans. I really appreciate the knowledge and your personal time.

Best,
Susanne

And I wrote her back:

Hurray for you bringing Gracie and Sam back together! Siblings make the best buddies, although once separated it takes awhile to get to know each other again. Be patient, he’ll come around.

A quick word about the Essences — do not waste it in water since cats eating wet food rarely drink anyway. Put 5 drops on his two meals and then rub inside his ears and underneath his paws on his paw pad with the 3rd essence.

Be sure to let me know how it works out — you need to be consistent with the essences — give it a few days, or longer if the problem is more severe.

Good Luck!
Tracie

Garth Wakes Us Up

Saturday, June 13th, 2009

Roxanne called into the show to say her boyfriend (whom she calls her spousal equivalent) had talked her into kicking the “kitty crack” and giving wet food only to their kitties. But now they were worried that the cats weren’t drinking anymore and he insists on putting down water anyway. I explained that cats eating the right diet don’t need water. She wrote:

How can we get our cats to sleep in? Our cats used to get us up at 4:00 am, and a week ago we switched them to canned food only (because of your book) and now they get us up to feed them at 2:30 a.m. (coincidence?) HELP! We would love to train them not to bother us at all until we get up at 5:00 am. Any tricks to that?

Your darling “spousal equivalent” (great word by the way) can keep putting that water down for as long as it makes him happy – since he got your pussycats onto the right food!

I realize I have an email from you from a few days back with your feeding question – but here are some basic ideas to consider:

1) Garth is obese – so getting off kitty crack is harder for him. He needs MORE QUANTITY – AS MUCH AS HE’LL EAT at two or even 3 meals.

2) Lots of high protein snacks are fine to help him make this transition. With your bookplate you’ll be getting some Whisker Smackers from Dr. Harvey’s from me and you can use those or any protein treat to help with his hunger issues, like little pieces of cooked steak, a bit of deli meat, etc.

3) Play with him before bed to tucker him out.

4) He has taught you to get up to feed him. The hour has improved or worsened, but he has you trained. You have to hang tough and not get up and give him food or attention. Try closing him in a laundry room or other room as far from bedroom as possible at night until he realizes you won’t be getting up.

5) Call in next Wednesday and tell me if this has worked and if so, great – if not I’ll give you a plan B.

Tracie

The Cat Bible

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Kitty With Shoe Fetish

Monday, May 11th, 2009

This is one of the most original issues to cross my virtual doorstep:

So to make it short, we have a cat that will seek out and find my shoes, sandals, slippers, whatever. Roll on them and then sleep on them, any ideas of why this is?

Thanks,
Dave & Aubrie in Salem, Oregon

It must be that you have delicious smelling feet and your kitty cat loves you very much. Either that, or s/he has a shoe fetish! Each cat is a quirky individual and this is what makes yours happy! Just be glad it’s not a puppy, who would be chewing and destroying them!

Spirit Essences for Old Crying Kitty

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009

It was good to hear that my advice gave an old kitty some relief:

The advice to leave additional lights on for Catie (the 15-yr old black cat who cries incessantly at night) worked. She cries occasionally but nothing like before. Unfortunately she continues to pee in inappropriate places.

Hi Mary – I’d like to suggest that you go to the Spirit Essences page of my website and try “Graceful Aging.” I think this will help Catie, too, as she copes with the changes of getting older. THE CAT BIBLE has so many suggestions on ways to ease her life as she ages. Out-of-litter-box issues for older kitties are different. Please check out the BLOG and Q&As on my website to find more suggestions.

Tracie

The Cat Bible

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Thunderstorm Phobia

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

My dog Tegan was VERY freaked by the Thunderstorm this evening. Not at first, but when it got close he ran upstairs (wouldn’t eat dinner) and sat in the bathroom trembling. I just took him out when the thunderstorm (and rain) ended but he was very difficult to handle, I did get him to pee but he kept trying to get back to the house. I recommend taking them out separately for a quick walk close by if there have been thunderstorms and he seems uneasy. Poor guy, this is my first experience with a dog that is frightened of T-storms.

Michelle

Rescue Remedy from Spirit Essences was made for humans, but Spirit Essences are made specifically for animals based on the same Bach flower essences. (there is also a 5% discount for my listeners – my website explains)

STRESS STOPPER is the one for thunderstorms – it is fantastic – give several drops on the tongue and rub inside ears and on the paw pads themselves – can repeat as often as needed.

You can also buy an Anxiety Wrap – a neoprene wrap-around blanket that velcros into place around the dog’s middle. Listen to the podcast of my recent interview with Temple Grandin on DOG TALK® (downloadable off my website) during which I asked her about thunderstorm phobia. She said swaddling the dog, or wrapping anything wide around the torso and holding it snugly in place – can help with fear. At the least, press your hands on either side of the rib cage.

DO NOT take the dog outside – worst place possible. Find an indoor space (walk in closet, bathroom) with no exterior walls) and let your dog huddle in there. Tranquilizers not recommended because they do not address the underlying fear.

The Dog Bible has a list of suggestions about this phobia.

It will transfer to the other dogs so get a grip on it ASAP.

Tracie

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The Dog Bible

THE CAT BIBLE Saves a Kitty’s Life!

Tuesday, April 7th, 2009

I got this wonderful note from Amanda in Lakewood, Colorado and am really honored to have been part of getting her new kitty cat Raku through a rocky time:

I have to say that THE CAT BIBLE has helped my household a lot! At the beginning of this month (March) my boyfriend and I decided to adopt a second cat from the local animal shelter. We had gone into the shelter with the ideal age and sex for our new cat but fell in love with a 2yr 3mth old Male cat, now named Raku. Though our other cat is an almost 2 and a male as well we couldn’t resist the feeling that we needed to take Raku home with us. It is a good thing we did! He was neutered Sunday the day after we adopted him and the day we took him home. He was so sad looking that first day as they all are the day they get neutered… but we noticed by Tuesday he hadn’t eaten anything or defecated. This caused a lot of worry and distress. We rushed him directly back to the local animal shelter so that he could be looked at by their hospital vet. After three days of tests and sub-q fluids it turns out that he has FLUTD. With all of this stress and the fact that he had to go back to the animal shelter we spent the first week with him very ill from the FLUTD and from the “flu” he brought home with him. If we hadn’t had The Cat Bible on our shelf to reference I think a lot of the symptoms could have been overlooked and may have led to death!

We bought the book when we adopted our first cat Tanoshii. Tanoshii has been a very healthy and laid back lap cat. His world has been turned upside down in the last month! Last weekend, Tanoshii jumped into the safe room to meet Raku… the initial meeting went well. However, Tanoshii is definitely showing some signs of asserting dominance, such as chasing after Raku and trying to bite his neck. We have limited their meetings to the safe room because it is where Raku feels safest and they seem to handle each other much better in this smaller more secure environment. Raku started batting his paws back at Tanoshii today and I think he even “challenged” him a little. I want these guys to be best of friends but am very nervous about this behavior that Tanoshii is exerting. If we let them out of the room Tanoshii chases after Raku and jumps on him! If Raku tries to hide Tanoshii will wait outside of his hiding spot until he comes out. I think that it is important for them to work this out together without my interference. However, is this a normal way to work things out? I am just waiting for Raku to stop turn around and chase after Tanoshii! Hopefully since today he started to challenge (and not just a bluff challenge) Tanoshii their true play days are soon to come and we can stop having to separate them in two rooms when there isn’t supervision! In addition to this, when Tanoshii does get near Raku, Raku just licks him. I think they will be okay. The hissing and growling has been long gone and now it is just the decision of who is the top cat. Right?

I would love an inscribed nameplate for my book. It is currently the #1 used reference book in our house! (Any goodies would be welcome too!) Thank you so much for your highly informative, useful book and website!

Dear Amanda – So great to hear from you – and to have the great pleasure and satisfaction of knowing that something you learned and applied from The Cat Bible might have saved your new pussycat’s life. Bravo to you for being alert!

As to the way your boys are relating, I’m not feeling really good about – too much one-sided play that verges on dominance and bullying. This is not something that will get worked out, but may escalate into some catfights that it will be hard to recover from psychologically. So for the moment, keep them separated and only together under your supervision (as you said that is manageable) and then I want to suggest that you go to my website and order some “Ultimate Peacemaker” from Spirit Essences – these are what I call “emotion potions,” all natural derived from flower essences like Bach’s Rescue Remedy for people. Ultimate Peacemaker has 3 bottles: you’ll give them both drops of Peacemaker in their food, and tough-guy Tanoshii will get Bully Remedy and poor victimized Raku will get Self-Esteem. I think you’re going to see a surprising shift in their behavior – but I want you to tell me!

A package is on its way with bookplate inscribed to the boys, a little bottle of Nordic Naturals, a CD of one of my radio shows and lots of other stuff.

Tracie

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Olive-Obsessed Kitty

Monday, April 6th, 2009

I got this quite intriguing question from Susan in New Hampshire:

I don’t have Sirius radio, but my friend Kirsten Clark in New Fairfield, CT told me about your show. I have a question about cat nutrition. My (almost) two year old cat Juno steals Kalamata olives. Not only does he steal them, he will scream and beg for them if he sees me eating them or smells them in the room. He’ll gnaw on my fingers if he knows I’ve held one. This is a normally very composed furry gentleman. Once Juno secures an olive he literally goes wild — he shakes with excitement and devours the olive in an ecstatic frenzy. I’ve never witnessed such behavior. Days after consuming an olive and with a wistful look on his face, Juno will even lick the floor where it once was. Is my kitty missing an essential nutrient in his diet? Juno receives three of the smaller-sized cans of Wellness brand wet food or portions of their larger canned Core wet food per day, supplemented with a tiny bit of Wellness dry food overnight (less than a quarter cup — and even this will take him a month to finish because he prefers wet). He has a Drinkwell brand fountain which is always on and clean, as well as fresh tap water placed in a still dish daily. We keep a steady crop of cat grass available, and he gets Wellness brand jerky treats about once a month, for fun. I’d welcome your thoughts, Tracie. Should I give him olives, or refrain? What could be driving this obsession of his?

Susan

Clearly, Juno is the MOST well provided-for kitty I have heard about in a long time (except the pointless addition of “kitty crack” which sits out overnight(s) and luckily he is way too well-fed with proper food and is way smart enough to ignore entirely.). But this olive mania got me to thinking… remembering that other listeners had asked it before. So I turned to Dear Sally, CAT CHAT’s® behavior consultant, who hadn’t ever heard of i. But being a good researcher and reporter, here’s what she came up with:

I did a Google search and the reaction is not unusual — sort of like catnip. Here’s a somewhat scientific explanation that I found:

“Both green olives (Olea europaea) and Pimentos (Capsicum annuum) contain isoprenoids that are structurally similar to the methylcyclopentane monoterpene nepetalactone, which is responsible for binding to receptors in the cat’s vomeronasal organ and consequently the mind-altering effect a cat experiences. These compounds are not unusual, although the configuration varies widely between plant species. These compounds resemble pheromones, and as such some of them function as a natural mock-pheromone pest repellents for the plant, which is likely how such high levels of these constituents within a plants’ essential oils evolved. The vomeronasal organ is what cats (and most other animals with the exception of humans, although there is a small indented area and partial nerve channel where it would be, left over from our evolution) uses to sense pheromones, and is where the nepetalactone in catnip stimulates pheromone receptors resulting in space-kitty. Summary: it is likely that either the green olives or pimentos have a chemical in their essential oil that is similar enough to the active chemical in catnip to have a similar effect on the same receptors in the part of kitty’s nose that are responsible for catnip getting her high. There appears to be no toxicity (someone mentioned diarrhea, but I would go easy on the olives, simply for the addiction factor. Pitted, of course.

I had also put the question out to JACKSON GALAXY, who is a cat behavior consultant in Los Angeles and the owner of the magical Spirit Essences. Funnily enough, he came back with the same information with les high-falutin’ words:

Believe it or not, this story is very commonplace. Reason being, both in varieties of green olives, like Kalamatas, and in pimentos, there are high levels of certain compounds that actually resemble pheromones. There’s a lot of scientific mumbo-jumbo that I’m sure nobody (read me) is interested in reading, but the bottom line is that these olives have components in their essential oils that cause a reaction very similar to catnip. Yes, her cat is olive-high. And no, there is nothing “bad” in kalamatas, although they are pretty well empty in terms of the nutrition they offer her. It sounds as if she’s trying to make a connection between what she may be lacking in her diet and the olive-eating (like when animals eat dirt, for example), when in reality she’s just looking for a cheap thrill :-)

When Sally mused, “I wonder how my cats would react?” I suggested she do a CAT CHAT® experiment and toss out a few olives out to her kitties. Ands so she did. But the experiment was a dud, as she explains: “I bought both green olives (which my hubby likes) and black (which I like) to test on our three felines. All I got as a reaction was three “What the f— ?” looks in return. And they all do like catnip. Go figure… ”

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CAT S.O.S.

Saturday, April 4th, 2009

Bobbi in Virginia wrote me with her multi-leveled, multi-cat problems, which are a daunting challenge just to think about from afar – I cannot imagine how stressful and challenging they are to actually LIVE with. [NOTE: These are the sort of extreme cat behavior problems I am looking for in the Los Angeles area, to choose a few to whom I am going to make a personal visit!]

My husband and I have emailed you before about the dominance and accompanying pee all over the house issues that we have with our five cats. We have three male tabbies, a calico and a torti. Two males and the calico are litter mates. While we have tried everything you suggested about the pee issues, the truth is that we have just learned to live with them.

At your book’s suggestion, we have switched the cats over to moist food and that has helped litter box issues, but not the peeing.

My question to you today is twofold. First, is it possible for a neutering not to take? Chesapeake who is about five and a half has been wanting to go out in the worst way. We have seen him pee outside the box in front of us and he did it again yesterday. I have taken him to the vet but he is IMPOSSIBLE to medicate! He is too big and too strong for either of us to hold him. She did recommend giving him Cosequin to try and calm him down. I can usually get him to take that on his food.

The second part of the question is that after he peed on a window yesterday, we took him outside and put him in a cat carrier. Since he has been back in the house, he is now the Pariah cat and none of the other cats want to go near him. I am spraying Feliway but that isn’t working very well.

I don’t have to tell you that the whole scenario is very sad not to mention a mess. We constantly have to cover counters and we have had lots of things ruined due to cat pee. Every cat has a box and we have boxes in different places in the house. We even have one under the bed storage box with litter in it. While we suspect that the majority of our issues are from two female cats, now we have this new issue with Chessie.

Jon and I have really appreciated all the helpful advice in The Cat Bible, but now we are asking for any other advice that you may have. Our veterinary care is not the best out here. We have to deal with the doctor that we have due to distance and cost. Thank you in advance for your help!!

Dear Bobbi – First of all, my heart goes out to you for the mess and stress you are living with. Thank you for not giving up on your kitties, but instead trying everything you could and reaching out for help. I am going to do the best I can to point out where I see the greatest problems and what you might do about them. You have already done a few things very well, perhaps with encouragement from THE CAT BIBLE: certainly having the right number of boxes and in different locations, as well as switching to wet food only, are very good basic fixes. But there is so much else going on! This is truly a situation where a vet behaviorist would be so helpful in excluding any physical or medical problems and then unraveling the behavior issues. But you say you are isolated in Virginia and have only one not-so-fabulous vet to turn to. But if you go on my website to look for locations of these vets who belong to AVSAB, maybe there is one nearby. Also, if you are near Blacksburg, where the Virginia Tech vet school is (where I am speaking in the end of April) they might have a behavior department that would help you at little or no cost.

To begin with, your situation has so many layers of confusing information and illogical solutions and assumptions (by you and your vet) that we need to wade through that first. How long have you had five cats? It would seem that at some point things were fine and then you added one or two “cats too many” and that tipped the equilibrium and caused territorial and other issues. You say the females are the problem – how so? What do you say that? Why were you trying to medicate Chessie? And with what? And why would a vet give an arthritis supplement – Cosequin – to calm down a cat? Surely this vet must be smarter than that – or could you have misunderstood? (and by the way, where such supplements are concerned, I vastly prefer Platinum Performance which you can find out all about on my website where I have given them a page – but it has no calming effects, that’s for sure!) But if your vet was literally giving a joint supplement and telling you it would calm your cat, you are going to need to look elsewhere for medical help, that’s for darn sure!

First of all, go to my website and look at the page for Spirit Essences – these are based on the same principles as Bach flower remedies (like “Rescue Remedy”) but formulated just for cats’ emotional issues. You’ll have to look at the description of each essence but I could recommend putting a few drops of “Safe Space” and of “Peacemaker” on top of all the kitties’ food. It will get you onto a calmer plane to make other adjustments, which I am going to recommend. These flower essences are subtle and theoretically take a week or two to show any change, but so far my person use of them and that of other listeners has been pretty quick and a dramatic improvement.

As for Chessie wanting to go out – and now being a victim of the others since you placed him outdoors in a cat carrier (for only a short time, I hope?!) – this is no indication of whether his neutering was successful. He’s not showing any Tomcat behavior anyway – he’s not trying to fight, he’s trying to flee, it sounds like! Since I think what you have is an overcrowding situation, and since Chessie is so eager to be outdoors, I have a suggestion which I think will solve all the issues at once: an outdoors enclosure where Chessie (and perhaps even one or two of his littermates) can live full time or spend most of their time. I really like the product Purrfect Fence (now linked on my website because I am about to make a big push for people enclosing their cats outdoors and never ever letting them run free). This system is simple as pie to put up, nearly invisible to the human eye, not too costly and completely flexible in that you can add it to existing fence, can put it against the side of a garage, shed or the house itself, and it is temporary so if you are renting or plan to move, you can move it as easily as you installed it. If you have access to a big old log you can put it in there for climbing and scratching, you can put a couple of shelves at various levels for Chessie and/or brothers to have that vertical space they crave (which is partly why they are up on your counters) and you can make a little sandbox for a litter box and either use sand or litter and scoop it as you would an indoor box. If you put a cat house out there and bed it with synthetic lambskin over some straw, Chessie can even live out there in cold weather. There are lots of pre-fab small dog houses available at pet stores or on the web, otherwise you’ll have to construct something both weather-proof and with a roof at something of a slant to let water and/or snow slide off. But certainly the top of that house will become a favorite roosting place for him.

I think making an outdoor cat space is going to change everything – and give Chessie (and whoever else joins him!) a higher quality of life with fresh air and visual and mental stimulation. This solves many of your issues in one fell swoop, with the addition of the Spirit essences to chill out ruffled feathers amongst the cats. Let me know if you undertake it and what the results are – good luck to you!

Tracie

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