Posts Tagged ‘dog’

Do Babies and Large Breed Puppies Belong Together?

Sunday, October 12th, 2008

After I had Diane Monahan from Friends for Pets in Sunland, California on DOG TALK® (talking about why people give up dog when their human baby is born and the moral consequences of relinquishing a dog for your own convenience) I received this email from Helen, an excellent Doberman Pinscher rescue person in Florida. She shared with me this letter that she wrote to a woman with a baby who wanted to adopt a Dobie puppy at Christmas time. Helen added that despite taking the time to write this long and thoughtful letter to the woman that she never heard back from her!

Tracie

Personally, I wouldn’t advise adopting a Dobie pup with a child that young. We don’t place our adults in homes with children until they are old enough and large enough to stand up to a leaning Dobie. That’s usually 10-13 years or older. If you buy a Dobie, that pup will be huge in a year and your child will not. Dobies are good dogs, but also have childlike needs for attention, and are called Velcro dogs for a good reason. They will take big advantage if you are not consistent and fair. Everyday, mine test me in one way or another to see if they can get away with a little something. As long as I am one step ahead of them, I’m ahead of the game, and maintain respect. But I have seen adopters who do not have the skills to handle a Dobie because of their constant testing of the boundaries. So a lot depends on the owners of the dog and how many eyes are in their head and how well they manage everything with dog language and child language, and that is tough. You have to be on your toes to make sure your child isn’t aggravating the dog, and that she is treating that dog fairly. Honestly, I don’t know you or your skills as a puppy mom, but that is a lot to take on for anyone. Frankly, I would feel more confident suggesting you find a nice Lab who’s mature enough where you don’t have to start with square one, a Lab who’s had child experience, and will not be a constant challenge. You have a lot to do with a baby, and a Dobie pup will require a lot of time, devotion, training, and follow-up daily. When a Dobie turns 1 year old, that’s when a lot are relinquished. They are a lot to handle then, and most people don’t want to deal with a dog that size who still has puppy brains.

Bottom line is I would not recommend adopting a Dobie puppy. And Christmas is a tough time to adopt any dog. But that’s not as much of a challenge as the age and energy of the dog you get. I know of a Lab rescue that will do right by you if you are so inclined to go in that direction. When your child grows in years to be physically capable to handle a dog and becomes dog savvy, I would welcome you to come back and apply for a rescue Dobie. They are the best, but probably not for the stage of life you and your family are in as of now.

Good luck,
Helen

Crate Question But Tracie Wants to Know Where That German Sherperd Is Really Coming From?

Wednesday, September 24th, 2008

Hi Tracie: I first want to say that I love your show! As a regular and habitual listener of WLIU while driving, I first stumbled on your DOG TALK® shows several years back and loved hearing your opinions as well as those of your guests, and this was without even owning a dog! We are now in the process of getting a German Shepherd puppy through a breeder in PA which we are picking up in early November, and I am in heavy nesting mode as well as trying to crunch as much information as I can into my wee brain to prepare myself and my family.

My question is about crates. I bought your DOG BIBLE and have also been doing a lot of homework online and realize that we need to get a crate for many reasons. I also recall a show where you talked about a particular crate that was considered the “Rolls Royce of crates” that you found to be exactly the opposite. Are there any particular crates, whether brand names or what to look for, that you can recommend?

Your advice and expertise/experience in this matter would be invaluable!

Thank you!
Best,
Monday from Aquebogue, NY

Although I wasn’t asked, I just had to butt in about the breeder Monday was getting a puppy from – unfortunately, all the high volume puppy millers in Pennsylvania have ruined the state’s reputation for the good breeders – but forewarned is forearmed.

Monday – first, do send me your address so i can send you a bookplate – and thank you so much for your very kind words. It means SO much to hear that a non-dog owner has been enjoying the show!

An important aside  – I don’t want to alarm you but I am very wary of any breeders in PA – it is a very high volume puppy mill state and the Amish have gotten into commercial breeding. You have picked a magnificent breed but one with some heartbreaking genetic problems. Any reputable breeder will have x-rayed hips and knees of breeding pairs as well as other genetic testing. You have the DOG BIBLE already – did this breeder ask you the questions in there? Did you ask the questions I recommend? And have you already met the breeder and seen where and how the dogs live? Also, have you contacted the national AKC GSD group to see if this breeder is a member? If the answers to any of this are NO, please correct it ASAP before you ever set eyes on that puppy and it is too late. This is really important.

The crate question – there are the usual ugly plastic crates but there are now gorgeous wooden crates made of furniture-grade materials which can fit right into a bedroom or living room decor – my web site sponsor Smartpak.com carries several made of different woods – if you can afford them and have room, it’s a great option (and I appreciate you going to Smartpak since their support allows me the freedom to have no advertisers on my site but still get the job done right). The crate needs to be snug for the puppy – the DOG BIBLE explains everything you need to know, just trust it. The horrible “Mercedes Benz” of crates was a nasty little environment in which to keep a dog caged for long periods with an astro turf area to pee in – the exact opposite of what crate training is intended to teach. Good luck – and call in!

Tracie

Schnauzer With Stones, Listener Comes to Aid

Wednesday, September 24th, 2008

Thanks for taking my call tonight. Per your request here is a little history on Sebastian (Sabi) my 3 1/2 years old Mini Schnauzer – 14 lbs. (+ -)

On and off for a year he had blood in his urine, appearing the last few drops after he had emptied his bladder. This in addition to accidents in the house – my vet thought it was bladder infections coming and going or crystals. My Vet prescribed Clavamox (spelling) on and off in various doses with no results. After a Radiograph stones were discovered (16) and they were removed surgically Jan 2, 2008.

His diet since has been vet prescribed Hills Science Diet G/D wet with some Dry mixed in. I do add water to make it juicy to get more liquids in him. He does drink but not a lot.
You are right, I read the G/D bag/can after I got home and there is clearly bad stuff in his food. I feel awful feeding him this now, what I thought was “helping” (and vet recommended) is not. When you know better you do better and hopefully you can assist in pointing me in the right direction!!

You mentioned Honest Kitchen – Ice pups: Can you fill me in again on how to give this, I think you said mix with water to encourage drinking. What about daily diet for my little guy to hopefully prevent more stones. Which I know can return. Thank you so much for asking me to write!

PS: I’m off to order the DOG BIBLE Book via your site link now….I so enjoy listening to you in my car and on my I pod!  Now I can enjoy reading too.
Chrissy, Sabi’s Mom in Atlanta, GA

The great thing is that even before I could answer, my wonderful listener Helen, the Doberman rescue lady, jumped right in!  I did tell Chrissy about Ice Pups from the Honest Kitchen- a delicious chicken and herb powder that you can put just a little of into a bowl of water and your dog who never drinks will slurp to beat the band! My Scooby Doo nearly died of struvite stones in his bladder, so it’s a big issue for me, too, since he has no natural appetite to drink.

Tracie

Last night on CAT CHAT® you had a caller with a schnauzer who has calcium oxalate stones. One of my Dobies had calcium oxalate stones removed two years ago, and the first thing the highfaluting surgeon did was shove some canned Science Diet at me. He told me to feed Luigi that, but also said “It won’t work and he will be back for surgery to remove more stones in a year or so. No diet works on these stones.”

Well that was BS!

I immediately went onto the net and some people I knew mentioned the “Fuzzer Diet.” I found the person who created that diet on her yahoo list where she outlines the diet and her story. Luigi’s been on the diet now for two years, and is doing very well.

This group is very supportive. These are real people helping other dog owners who love and want to do the right thing by their dogs. The Fuzzer diet is particular to oxalate stones, and they also help/support other people whose dogs have struvites and other kidney/bladder problems. They’re the best!

http://pets.groups.yahoo.com/group/K9KidneyDiet/

The owner of this store, b-naturals supplements for dogs, is also a member of the list. She has the diet spelled out here on her site by the originator of the Fuzzer Diet, Leslie Bean.

http://www.b-naturals.com/newsletter/calcium-oxalate-uroliths/

Great group for owners of dogs with these issues! Great diet for oxalate dogs! Eegads, not enough people know about the Fuzzer diet and the yahoo list that supports people with dogs with these problems. It is a wonderful resource, and the woman who devised it, Leslie Bean, is a gem. She’s in the medical field, and had two little dogs that had wall-to-wall oxalate stones. Inoperable. Vets said nothing to do but watch them expire. She said, “Like hell!” So went to work and through her own knowledge and her contacts in the medical field, put the Fuzzer diet together, and low and behold, those dogs’ stones shrunk! Fuzzer was one of her beloved dogs who had the stones.

I sent the diet to my regular vet and that uppity surgeon. I’m sure they glanced and tossed it aside. I’m SO sick of the attitudes of these vet-gods. Argh! The advice I got was to have the urine tested every few weeks for “stuff,” but found out, like you, that doing an ultra sound IS the way to test for these stones and urine testing is money out the window. My vet said x-ray, but I said I didn’t want to expose Luigi to that much radiation. “Oh, well, dogs don’t live as long as us, so if they get cancer from it, they’ll be old anyway.” Did I mention how sick I was of these attitudes?

I was strolling along the Net yesterday and found an interview you did in April on the Conscious Dog network. You’re everywhere, and thank God you are! Keep it up!

Is Kibble the Devil’s Work?

Tuesday, September 23rd, 2008

I recently went to Glen Highland Farm Border Collie rescue twice to speak to campers who were there for a week with their dogs doing activities (I gave back both honorariums to help support the camp later in the summer for inner city foster kids). I got this letter from a camper which is worth sharing:

I loved your presentation at the Glen Highland Farm dog camp, though, like many in the room, I was shocked that you recommended kibble as part of a dog’s diet (let alone 1/3 of the diet, as I understood your seminar). I started listening to your radio show after the camp, and was SO relieved to hear your conversation with the vet/lawyer (whose name escapes me at the moment, sorry), who likened kibble to mac-n-cheese. You gave strong advice to feed kibble. But there is NO place for kibble in a healthy diet. I’m writing to you now to urge you to please email this correction to campers who gave you their email address to you. Your commanding presentation style and strong credentials meant a LOT to people gathered in that barn, and they will follow your advice. (I did. I bought kibble for the first time in nearly a year after hearing you, thinking it was important for balance. So much for thinking for myself. argh… We all make mistakes in this area. There is no guidance beyond our own good sense.) An email correction would mean a lot to the people and the dogs that were present at the camp. I love your radio show, and now consider myself an avid listener! Please keep up the great work.

Best wishes, Jen and Moxie.

So I wrote Jen back after some reflection:

There are a few things you need to understand that may not have been clear in that interview with Elizabeth Hodgkins – she is a cat-only vet (in fact is the Official vet of my radio show CAT CHAT®) and while we share an adamant belief that any and all dry food is tremendously unhealthy – even deadly -for cats, that is not the same message for kibble for dogs. Elizabeth Hodgkins is a very close colleague of mine – we are in constant contact (she is on DOG TALK® periodically) – and I have the utmost respect for her. She has earned the right to have some pretty bitter views on the food industry (having worked at Hill’s for 8 years and Purina for 2) and the veterinary profession that supports it, which colors her positions. In any case, cats are her focus – she breeds, shows and sell ocicats and treats cats only. I develop my opinions and recommendations about feeding dogs from a variety of sources.

You are absolutely right that I was clear in my recommendation for using a high quality kibble as approximately 1/3 of a dog’s diet – and I in no way back off from that. FOR THE AVERAGE PERSON. Please realize that the vast overwhelming majority of dog owners in this country feed dry food exclusively – that was true of many at Glen Highland Farm, too, a much more educated and dedicated owner group than the norm. For me to say only 1/3 should be kibble – and only the finest kibble – is already revolutionary.

Change has to happen in increments and not be entirely shocking. I also said that those who have the time and resources to feed their dogs a balanced diet with a minimum of 3 food groups represented should go right ahead and do so – (protein, with constant revolving sources – carbohydrate like rice, potatoes, oatmeal, quinoa, pasta and a mixture of vegetables and fruits) But I still believe they need a supplement like Platinum Performance to really balance it.

Your comment that raw-feeders or all-home cooked feeders were shocked by my endorsement of some kibble does not surprise me. People want to hold to their nutritional ideologies and any wiggle room makes them anxious and defensive. That was my point, too – relax, this topic of dog feeding is something that should be logical and rational and not so fraught with emotion.

We need to take a step back and take a breath – many of the PEOPLE who worry about their dogs diets to an extreme don’t look fit or healthy themselves, they go without breakfast, they eat tons of refined sugars and flours, they eat fast food and chemical-laden lean cuisine and a salad drenched in chemical-laden dressing -  it’s quite a contradiction. I can assure you that feeding dog’s solely raw chicken is a deficient unbalanced diet – and that feeding kibble alone is a dreadful junk food diet. However, moderation and balance can be achieved in many ways.

But to assume that everyone can or should or even wants to be cooking for their dogs or can afford the time and cost is elitist and short sighted in my opinion. My goal is to come up with ideas and solutions that are practical and can be implemented without people turning their lives upside down. I happen to think that high quality kibble in small amounts is just fine –that’s why I (who could do anything at all) feed some of it to 2 of my 3 dogs twice daily. I find highly active dogs more satiated with some kibble- they seem more satisfied and content compared to only the simple carbs that I cook and they also get at every meal, along with a generous cup of The Honest Kitchen raw dehydrated food. I do not share Ann Martin’s extreme views on commercial dog food (if you listened to that episode of DOG TALK®) but she has spent the better part of decades immersed in the food crisis so no wonder she feels that way -she knows a lot and I admire that. But she also happened to be factually incorrect about named-protein meal being worse than meat by-products (in fact, she had them reversed- the latter is actually horrible and the former is okay – but I let it pass, this isn’t a contest for rightness, just for information and  opinions).

“Black and white” is the easiest knee-jerk way to respond to things that matter to us – believe me, I have had to develop an ability to weigh the good and bad of various topics over and over and over since I became a vocal and now respected voice in the dog and cat worlds – and I have had to learn to see shades of grey.

I’m sorry you are so sorry you bought some kibble! I honestly think it has a nice little niche in a dog’s bowl – all things being equal. One of my dogs cannot tolerate that much carb so she doesn’t get dry food  – but if you saw my two tall, muscular, lean 100 lb Weimaraners who do get some kibble, they are proof in the flesh that the dry food I’m offering them is hardly a bad thing. There are so many caveats in which brand and whether they sell the company, and how truthful the label is, etc. – but ALL FOODS need to be under constant scrutiny these days (for example, the company that was all-natural Coleman Beef recently was sold to another company operating entirely differently. Whole Foods was forced to do a massive recall because this new company (Artemis??) can even use the Coleman name & label for 6 months but not adhere to anything done previously – and it’s legal I’m considering eating some Taste of the Wild myself – roasted quail from Arkansas is sounding safer right now.

Tracie

UPDATE:

Dear Tracie,

I enormously appreciate your response. With your schedule, it’s amazing you found time to compose such a thoughtful and comprehensive reply. Thank you SO much.

I did hear Ann Martin’s interview, which definitely revived my concerns about kibble.  The protein meal/ byproduct issue is confusing. Perhaps this deserves a website to decode. Thank you for clarifying that you’re advising a plan that should work for most people and most dogs.  Reflecting on all this, I realize I need to leave more wiggle room in my own views. There are so many strong beliefs out there, and it’s all too easy to react against vets and others pulling scare tactics that we must feed only commercial foods.  But the other extreme is not necessarily right, either. As you said, the key is balance. We’ll use the bag we have in the manner you advise, and in the meantime, look into veggie stew recipes. Thank you again, and I really enjoy following your show.

The Dog Bible by Tracie Hotchner

Cat Plus Puppy Equals No More Litter Box

Saturday, June 28th, 2008

I got this multiple problem email from a nice lady in Canada whose basement has become one big litter box – Dear Sally helped me by posing a lot of questions. Stay tuned for the answers soon.

I’m having problems with my cat. He is 2 years old. My mother found him when he was just weeks old, he had fallen into her small pond in front of her house. Her dog took over the mothering, so he is fine with other dogs (he may think he is a dog). He does not like to be friendly to people. he bites when you pet him and will swat tat your heals as you walk up the stairs. He is fixed and De-clawed. Will he ever grow out of this?

Secondly – will he remember that he was outdoors, and always want to escape? I don’t like running around in the neighbours yards at 5 AM.(hahaha)

And last, my BIG problem…now we have a 7 month old puppy (Golden Retriever) and they love to play together. I make the dog stop when i think that the cat has had enough. but now he has made a habit of doing his business everywhere in the basement, and leaving a clean litter box behind. I have used a hot water vacuum cleaner on the sofa and chairs, and he will just go back and do it again. The basement is the only place that the dog will not go. Is he doing this because of the dog?  What can i use to get out the stains and the smell.

Thank you sooo much for your help,
Stephanie
Ontario, Canada

As I see it, there are so many things that Stephanie needs to know that THE CAT BIBLE can explain and then resolve. De-clawing creates more physical and emotional problems than the original scratching issue – all cats who want to go outside need a cat-safe enclosure like Purr-fect Fence (linked on my website). Basements are never good places for litter boxes. How much physical stimulation a cat can ‘stand” is quite individual and she needs to learn the signs that ‘enough is enough.” As for clean up, that’s an entire section of the book! So a lot more information would go a long way to helping resolve these issues.

Here’s what Sally Bahner, the Official cat Behaviorist of CAT CHAT® had to say about this messy situation. As usual, she cannot give answers without asking a lot of questions. [I recommended that Stephanie have a professional consultation with Sally because her issues are pretty complex and have been going on a long time.]

I really can’t figure out what’s going on here – is the cat declawed and going outside? Is the cat still living with the “mothering” dog and the puppy was added? What’s the extent of the cat “not liking people?” Do they know the signs of over-stimulation? Use fishing pole toys for play. Biting *may* be a reaction to declawing, but that’s water over the dam. When did the soiling start? Is the cat confined to the basement and the dog not allowed down there? Maybe the cat is reacting to be separated from his dog-friend? For cleaning, I’ve been using Simple Solution lately, which can be used in carpet cleaners. Good stuff. (That was the easiest part of the answer.)

Snoring Dog

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

I got this question recently from Kathy:

“Good morning Tracie. I have a Cavalier King Charles and he snores. Is there anything to stop it this noisy behavior?”

This was my answer – but I wonder if anyone with this problem has come up with a solution to pass along…?

I had a Cocker Spaniel (from a show breeder mind you) who snored so loudly he could wake the dead – or the sleeping.

It’s all about how their noses & throats are put together, so to speak (dogs with slightly pushed in faces can have breathing issues, this would fall in that category.)

If it bothers you at night your only solution is to have him sleep outside your bedroom.

You can also nudge him so he shifts position and that will stop it, but by then you’ve already been awakened!

Feel free to call into DOG TALK® (go to my website to see how & when) www.TracieHotchner.com and we can talk some more about this.

Tracie

The Dog Bible by Tracie Hotchner

Man’s Newly Adopted Dog “Hates Him”

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

I got this really touching and heart-breaking email from a listener recently. I think it’s worth realizing what an uphill battle adoption can be at times:

Dear Tracie,

I was referred to you by my trainer. She thought you might be able to help. I started listening to the podcasts, but I haven’t heard this topic discussed yet, so if it has, please direct me to that show.

We lost our dog over a year ago so after we thought enough time had passed and we were ready again, we went to a shelter here in MD to get another one. We found a beautiful lab, chow, <insert numerous breeds here> that had everything. The woman running the shelter said he was a bit shy, but we figured we could do right by him. Keep in mind that dogs are not furniture at our house, they are valued members of the family. Our last dog was our first “child”. She lived to see 16 years.

Anyway, we got him home, named him Indy and made sure he wanted for nothing. He got somewhat comfortable and began eating; putting on some much needed weight. The vet said he was fine and healthy.

The only trouble is he hates me. He loves my wife and kids, but avoids me at all costs. He will pee if I come near him when he lacks an escape route. He is not aggressive towards me but just doesn’t like me. (It’s not just me – it seems to be all men) I took him to obedience classes, and while he does what I say when on the leash, you can tell it’s because of fear and not the desire to please me. He has a scar in the middle of his cheat that the vet could not identify, but said it was healed correctly. I’m not sure what happened to this sweet little guy, but it would seem that it was at the hands of a man or men.

I give him treats (I cook bacon for him – his favorite treat), I take him for walks, I just walk by and pet and tell him he’s a good boy. He will sometimes take the treat from me if I reach out to him. He will never come to me and if I hold him, he is looking for a way out. I am willing to give him the time he needs, but I don’t want to miss something I could be doing to make sure he knows that I am not a bad guy and all men are not monsters.

We wanted to adopt another dog, but I don’t want to freak him out further than he is. He gets along well with my sister in laws dog. They play out in the yard like brothers. Until he sees me.

Anyway, if there is some resource I could tap into, I would really be appreciative. He seems very much worth the effort, but I am afraid that I am out my league with this sort of thing. I have never encountered a dog that didn’t like me before, which is why it’s so odd.

Thanks,
Keith

MY REPLY BACK TO KEITH WAS:

So glad you got in touch – and sorry for your frustration.

My first impressions are that

1) Indy is more like a cat – you have to let him come to you

2) It’s nothing personal – it IS about you being a man (just as you surmised) – he doesn’t hate you, he’s terrified and untrusting of men

3) The shelter should really have done some work with him so you would have known this going in and either been willing to put your personal feelings & pleasure aside for a while or you might not have – but now he’s yours!

4) Do not try to hug or hold or confine with affection – i have a dog adopted 4 years ago who can only barely tolerate a very brief hug- its threatening to her

Please call into Dog Talk and keep me updated – this is going to have a happy ending, just not a quick one!

As for another dog, YES! I think a really “love-bug” kind of dog will show Indy that people are to be trusted and can be fun. It also might help build his confidence. But make sure you take Indy with you to make the choice of what dog comes home.

I highly recommend you read that section of THE DOG BIBLE for suggestions on making that journey successfully

Allison Denlea of Paws for Positive Training is the Official Trainer of Dog Talk and a super person – if you live anywhere from Manhattan to Montauk she will come work with you – her number is 631-368-8046. If not, this is her message to you through me – I shared your email with her

Hi Tracie,

I’m sure it’s a very hard thing for Keith, as he sounds like a true dog-lover. Indy sounds like he is an aloof dog, who prefers the company of women and children – there are dogs that do, for no apparent reason – they just do.

Keith needs to keep in mind that Indy is submissive – without seeing it, I can’t call it “fear”. There is a difference between avoidance and fear.

Keith needs patience, needs to NOT hold Indy, NOT reach toward him, and not force the situation. He DOES need to continue working with the dog with his obedience, taking him for walks, feeding, quiet praise, without eye contact or body language that Indy would think is threatening. If Keith is the only one in the house that takes care of Indy’s survival (i.e. meals) and Keith has him sit and wait for his food, then releases him, he will gradually come around. Keith just needs to understand not ALL dogs love us at first sight!

Allison